First, let me state the obvious. I don't want to be a stay-at-home
mom. Neither does Shira. I just saw the self help book,
How to Help
Your Husband Make More Money So You Can Be a Stay-At-Home Mom by Joanne
Watson, at the library and couldn't resist the title.
The book's premise isn't a bad one: husbands and wives should work as a
team to be a success. This means that it's smart to have one partner at
work, another at home. This is just good sense.
Unfortunately, the premise is about all I can say I enjoyed about the
book.
The book is a sort of an advice guide for making more money. It includes
tips like: get more training, ask for a raise and find a new job. It
has, as its slant, suggestions for a wife on how she can get her husband
to do this all. The reality is, while the advice in the book is mostly
good - it's not the most complete source of information on any one
topic.
The book was obviously written during the hay day of the Internet
bubble. Programming, HTML and Oracle databases are all mentioned as
easy skills to learn, master and make boatloads of money from. And, I
kid you not, if you want to make the really big bucks, get involved in
Internet Marketing. Why? I have no idea. Just take Joanne's word for
it.
This message from the book has the same feel as a prospector bragging
about his job during a gold rush. She just can't imagine why everyone
isn't cashing on the same easy money she is. And, of course they assume
the gold rush will last forever.
The reality is, there was a time when knowing a bit of HTML could be an
in to a much better job. However, that time has since long gone.
And then there's this whole unsettling tone of the book. Not once in
the whole book is it ever suggested that the man stay home and the wife
work. It's simply not an option. And the book consistently talks about
"your goal of being a stay at home Mom" as if the husband has no say in
the matter. It's like a training manual to manipulate your husband into
getting what you want. I'm pretty sure my wife doesn't need any more
advice on this topic.
Look, If you want to be a stay at home mom, give it a listen. You might
enjoy it, and find it inspirational. On the other hand, if you want to
make more money, interview better, or do a host of other things, you can
do way better than this book.
I give it a 1.4/10.
--Ben